I'm Insha Allah planning to get married soon, and the person of interest to me has come back to me stating the below two hadiths apply to both men & women when choosing their spouses. However I see it differently with men given more options in attributes to look for in a wife.

Praise be to Allah. Reflecting upon signs in the universe and Islamic teachings mentioned in the texts is one of the great acts of worship enjoined and encouraged in the Qur’an. Allah, may He be exalted, says (interpretation of the meaning): “Those who remember Allah (always, and in prayers) stan